《爸爸去哪儿》（第一季）中父子冲突起因和应对方式研究

发布时间：2018-08-19 18:37

【摘要】：父子冲突作为父子互动的一种类型,是家庭生活中经常发生的现象,对父子双方的生活、特别是对儿童的发展具有重要意义。本文采用内容分析法,通过定性和定量相结合的方式,对《爸爸去哪儿》(第一季)中父子冲突的原因和应对方式的现状和特点的描述和分析,以期引发父亲的反思进而能在实践中作出改进,来减少父子之间不必要的冲突,优化冲突互动方式。通过定性分析发现父子冲突的起因主要有自我认知、自我情感、日常活动、交往意愿、交往方式、环境认知和环境适应这几个方面。根据冲突的指向可以将这些原因划分为指向自己、指向他人和指向环境三个维度。由孩子们引发的比较有特点的冲突原因包括唧唧歪歪、粘人、哭、发脾气、“异想天开”。对冲突起因定量分析的结果显示:各个起因的数量由多到少依次是环境适应、日常活动、互动方式、互动意愿等;由孩子引发的冲突数量多于父亲;各对父子由于各个原因所引发的冲突的数量既有相似之处,也呈现差异性。通过定性分析发现父亲应对方式的具体形式有命令、威胁、责怪、解释、诱导、提醒、自说自话和沉默不语,孩子的应对方式的具体形式包括直接否定、哭闹、解释、请求、讨价还价、自说自话、沉默不语。根据这些具体形式的性质将其划分为强制、协商、忽视这三种类型。其中瞪眼和吼、耐心、做一个“慈祥”的爸爸、无所适从、友善等是几位爸爸表现出的比较有特色的应对方式。定量分析父子应对方式的结果表明父子二人采取强制方式的频率类似;父亲采取协商方式的频率明显多于孩子,忽视方式少于孩子;各对父子所采取的应对方式的频率有相似之处,也呈现差异性。节目中的父子冲突呈现出的现状只是一种片面性的真实,但特点却具有普遍性和代表性。父子冲突不可避免,良性的父子冲突有助于促进孩子成长、增强父子联系、改善父子关系。为了更好地发挥父子冲突的正向功能,父亲在生活中需要注意控制冲突的频率和强度,并根据父子自身的特点优化冲突应对方式。
[Abstract]:As a type of parent-son interaction, parent-son conflict is a frequent phenomenon in family life, which is of great significance to the life of father and son, especially to the development of children. In this paper, the content analysis method is used to describe and analyze the causes of the conflict between father and son and the current situation and characteristics of the coping style in where Dad goes (the first season) through the combination of qualitative and quantitative methods. In order to arouse the father's reflection and make improvement in practice, it can reduce the unnecessary conflict between father and son and optimize the way of conflict interaction. Through qualitative analysis, it is found that the main causes of parent-son conflict are self-cognition, self-emotion, daily activities, communication intention, communication style, environmental cognition and environmental adaptation. According to the direction of conflict, these causes can be divided into three dimensions: pointing to themselves, pointing to others and pointing to the environment. The more characteristic causes of conflict caused by children include incessant talk, clingy, crying, tantrums, whimsical. The results of quantitative analysis of the causes of conflict show that the number of each cause is environmental adaptation, daily activities, interaction style, interaction willingness, etc. The number of conflicts caused by children is more than that of fathers. The number of conflicts caused by each father and son is similar and different. Through qualitative analysis, it is found that the specific forms of the father's coping style are command, threat, blame, explanation, inducement, reminder, self-talk and silence. The specific forms of the child's coping style include direct negation, crying, explanation, request, etc. Bargain, talk to yourself, silence. According to the nature of these specific forms, it is divided into three types: compulsion, negotiation and neglect. Among them, glaring and roaring, patience, being a "kind" father, disorientation, friendliness and so on are the more characteristic coping styles of several dads. The results of quantitative analysis showed that the frequency of forced approach was similar; the frequency of father adopting negotiation was obviously more than that of children, and the neglect of father was less than that of children. There are similarities and differences in the frequency of coping styles adopted by fathers and sons. The present situation of the conflict between father and son in the program is only one-sided reality, but the characteristics are universal and representative. The father-son conflict is inevitable, and the benign father-son conflict is helpful to promote the children's growth, strengthen the father-son relationship and improve the father-son relationship. In order to better play the positive function of parent-son conflict, the father should pay attention to the frequency and intensity of conflict control in his life, and optimize the conflict coping style according to the characteristics of father and son.
【学位授予单位】：南京师范大学
【学位级别】：硕士
【学位授予年份】：2017
【分类号】：G222

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