乌鲁木齐“90后”大学生婚恋观研究

发布时间：2018-10-22 19:17

【摘要】：婚恋观,是恋爱观和婚姻观的总称,是人们对恋爱、婚姻问题的基本认识和态度以及对待恋爱、婚姻的内在标准和主观看法,它是人们人生观和世界观的重要组成部分,它的正确与否不仅关系到个人能否获得甜蜜的爱情和组建和谐、幸福的家庭,还关系到社会的稳定和发展。研究“90后”大学生的婚恋观可以为伦理学界科学预测“90后”大学生的婚恋趋势提供理论依据,为学校、社会管理和指导“90后”大学生树立正确的婚恋观提供现实的参考意见。当今我们处在社会的转型期,转型期内快速发展的经济、社会结构和家庭结构发生急剧的变化、传统文化和现代文化的碰撞等都影响着整个社会主流婚恋价值观的形成和发展,处在这一时期的“90后”大学生面临这样的生活环境,形成了与前辈有所不同的婚恋观。与前辈们相比“90后”大学生的婚恋观具有:择偶方式多样化,标准综合化,婚姻目的现实化等特征。在将男女大学生婚恋观作比较时发现男女大学生在对待失恋的处理方式女性更为理性、在择偶的标准男性较为注重女性的身材外貌,而女性更加注重男性的经济实力和发展潜力,在性道德观念上,男性较女性更为看重贞操观念和意识等特征。经过问卷调查和个人访谈,本文认为“90后”大学生个体缺乏自身素养的提升、家庭结构的变化和父母忙于工作忽略对于孩子的婚恋观教育、学校重视学生应试考试而忽略人格的教育和社会上不正确婚恋观的影响等四个方面的原因导致他们婚恋观存在:非婚目的的婚恋动机;选择恋爱理想化,结婚对象功利化;性道德观念淡化等问题。这些问题需要“90后”个体、学校和社会共同努力才可以解决。作为“90后”大学生应该通过提升自身的道德修养和素质为树立正确的婚恋观奠定内因基础;学校应开设相关课程并丰富校园的文化功能为“90后”大学生树立正确的婚恋观创造良好的校园环境;社会应发挥其引导功能和大众传播的功能等引导“90后”大学生树立正确的婚恋观。
[Abstract]:The concept of love and marriage is the general term of the concept of love and marriage, and is the basic understanding and attitude of people on love and marriage, as well as the internal standard and subjective view on love and marriage. It is an important part of people's outlook on life and world outlook. Whether it is right or not is not only related to whether the individual can get sweet love and build a harmonious and happy family, but also to the stability and development of society. The study of the marriage and love outlook of the post-90s college students can provide a theoretical basis for the scientific prediction of the trend of love and marriage of the post-90s college students in the field of ethics, and provide a theoretical basis for the school. Social management and guidance "90" college students to establish a correct concept of marriage and love to provide practical advice. At present, we are in the transition period of our society. The rapid development of economy, social structure and family structure during the transition period, the collision of traditional culture and modern culture all affect the formation and development of the mainstream values of marriage and love in the whole society. In this period, the post-90s college students faced with such a living environment, and formed a different outlook on marriage and love. Compared with their predecessors, the post-90s college students' views on marriage and love have the following characteristics: diversification of the choice of spouse, integration of standards, realization of the purpose of marriage and so on. When comparing the views of marriage and love between male and female college students, it is found that female students are more rational in their treatment of lovelorn, and men pay more attention to the figure and appearance of women in the standard of mate selection. Women pay more attention to the economic strength and development potential of men. In sexual morality, men attach more importance to the characteristics of virginity and consciousness than women. Through questionnaire investigation and personal interview, the author thinks that the post-90s college students lack of the improvement of their own accomplishment, the change of family structure and the parents' busy work neglecting the education of their children's view of marriage and love. The school attaches importance to the examination-oriented examination and neglects the education of personality and the influence of the incorrect outlook on marriage and love in the society, which leads to the existence of their marriage and love outlook: the motive of marriage and love for the purpose of non-marriage, the idealization of choosing love, the utilitarianism of the object of marriage, and so on. The desalination of sexual morality and so on. These problems need to be solved through the joint efforts of the post-1990 individuals, schools and society. As the "post-90s" college students should improve their own moral cultivation and quality for the establishment of a correct concept of marriage and love to lay the internal basis; The school should set up relevant courses and enrich the cultural function of the campus to create a good campus environment for the post-90s college students to establish a correct view of marriage and love; The society should give play to its guiding function and mass communication function to guide the post-90s college students to establish a correct view of marriage and love.
【学位授予单位】：新疆师范大学
【学位级别】：硕士
【学位授予年份】：2016
【分类号】：G641

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