基于友文化视角的当代大学生人际关系研究

发布时间：2018-01-29 07:35

本文关键词： 友文化大学生人际关系　出处：《河南大学》2013年硕士论文　论文类型：学位论文

【摘要】：人际关系是人与人之间的心理关系，是人们感情的依托，更是生活的重要支撑，因此，建立和谐的人际关系对人们来说无疑是至关重要的。我国传统的和谐思想博大精深，其中以孔子为代表的儒家思想占据着重要的地位，包括仁爱、忠恕、礼让、诚信、宽厚等。这些思想通常在人际交往的过程中得以体现，同时又是建立和谐人际关系所必不可少的条件。友文化是针对人际关系中的和谐理念而提出来的一个新概念，它在静态上包含了儒家和谐思想的精髓，而动态上则倡导人们通过对和谐理念的把握与运用，，进而建立起和谐的人际关系。大学生是一个特殊的群体，他们处于身心发展的一个转折期，又处于步入社会的一个过渡期。在这个关键时期，能否建立和谐的人际关系不仅关系到大学生的学业，更影响着大学生今后的事业与生活。当代大学生的人际关系从总体上看是乐观的，但是受各方面的影响还是存在一些问题。一方面是大学生对传统和谐人际思想的淡漠，包括思想认识不足，感情重视不够，意志培养不定，行为践行不力等，突显了大学生知、情、意、行环节的薄弱。另一方面是大学生人际交往过程中出现的三个不良倾向——利益化倾向、两面化倾向和虚拟化倾向。导致这些问题出现的原因是多方面的，宏观层面主要表现在人际信任危机、人际网络危机、人际利益危机等；微观层面则包括学校管理的力度不够、家庭管教的方式不当以及个体身心发展不成熟等方面的影响。文章的最后一部分针对大学生人际关系的现状及原因提出对策，把学校、家庭、社会三个方面的力量结合起来改善大学生的人际交往，是以外部条件为着眼点的策略；而更重要、更关键的则是要从大学生自身出发，认真学习人际交往的知识与理论、切实掌握人际交往的原则与理念、善于运用人际交往的方法与技巧，通过自身的努力来构建和谐的人际关系。
[Abstract]:Interpersonal relationship is the psychological relationship between people, is the support of people's feelings, but also the important support of life, so. To establish harmonious interpersonal relationship is undoubtedly vital to people. The traditional harmonious thought of our country is broad and profound, in which Confucian thought represented by Confucius occupies an important position, including benevolence, loyalty and forgiveness, comity. Honesty, generosity, etc. These ideas are usually reflected in the process of interpersonal communication. At the same time, it is an indispensable condition for the establishment of harmonious interpersonal relationship. Friendship culture is a new concept for the concept of harmony in interpersonal relations, which contains the essence of Confucian harmonious thought in the static state. On the other hand, it advocates that people establish harmonious interpersonal relationship by grasping and applying the idea of harmony. College students are a special group, they are in a turning point of physical and mental development, but also in a transitional period into the society. Whether the harmonious interpersonal relationship can be established is not only related to the study of college students, but also affects the career and life of college students in the future. The interpersonal relationship of contemporary college students is optimistic from the overall point of view. However, there are still some problems under the influence of various aspects. On the one hand, college students are indifferent to the traditional harmonious interpersonal thoughts, including inadequate ideological understanding, inadequate emotional attention, indefinite cultivation of will, weak practice of behavior and so on. It highlights the weakness of college students' knowledge, affection, intention and behavior. On the other hand, there are three negative tendencies in the process of college students' interpersonal communication, that is, the tendency of interest. The causes of these problems are various, including interpersonal trust crisis, interpersonal network crisis, interpersonal interest crisis and so on. At the micro level, school management is not enough. The last part of the article puts forward the countermeasures for the present situation and reasons of college students' interpersonal relationship, and puts forward the school, family and other aspects of the influence of improper ways of family discipline and individual physical and mental development. The combination of the three aspects of society to improve the interpersonal communication of college students is a strategy based on external conditions. What is more important and crucial is to study the knowledge and theory of interpersonal communication from college students, to grasp the principles and concepts of interpersonal communication, and to be good at using the methods and techniques of interpersonal communication. Through their own efforts to build a harmonious interpersonal relationship.
【学位授予单位】：河南大学
【学位级别】：硕士
【学位授予年份】：2013
【分类号】：G645.5

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