女硕士研究生拒绝异性爱情告白的原因探究

发布时间：2018-03-13 19:05

本文选题：女研究生　切入点：爱情告白　出处：《河北师范大学》2013年硕士论文　论文类型：学位论文

【摘要】：研究生属于高学历群体，正处在恋爱和向社会转型的年龄阶段，未来也将面临自己的婚姻家庭，研究生的婚恋问题越来越受重视。女研究生作为高素质、高能力的优秀女性，其身边不乏追求者，而不少女研究生在面对异性爱情表白时选择了拒绝。本文主要探讨了女硕士研究生对于恋爱的态度及拒绝爱情告白的原因。本论文包括三个部分：第一部分是开放式问卷调查。通过向90名女研究生发放开放式问卷，收集女性拒绝男性爱情告白的原因，整理选取了39个项目，编制女研究生拒绝异性爱情告白原因问卷。第二部分是问卷调查。使用拒绝异性爱情告白原因问卷对447名女研究生进行调查，结果表明，女研究生拒绝异性爱情告白的原因主要在于重视自己的感觉、不满意告白者的性格、价值观和对方的个人能力。第三部分是访谈研究。选取两位有拒绝异性爱情告白经历的女研究生，分别进行一小时左右的深度访谈并录音。将录音转换为逐字稿，采用扎根理论进行分析。结果表明，，女研究生拒绝异性爱情告白时主要考虑女生个人未来规划、告白者与女研究生前任男友的类比差距等原因。综合以上研究，得出结论：（1）女研究生拒绝爱情告白时首要考虑对告白者的恋爱感觉。除此之外，女研究生拒绝异性爱情的原因主要由于对男性内在素质不满意，内在素质包括性格、价值观、兴趣爱好和个人能力。同时，女研究生拒绝爱情告白时还重视个人未来规划。（2）有恋爱经历的女研究生拒绝爱情告白受恋爱经历影响，会用前任男友与告白者进行比较。（3）女研究生拒绝爱情告白原因体现了择偶理论中的同类匹配理论。
[Abstract]:The graduate student belongs to the high education group, is in the love and the social transition age stage, in the future will also face own marriage family, the graduate student's marriage and love question receives more and more attention. Female graduate student is regarded as the high quality, the high ability outstanding female, Many female graduate students choose to refuse in the face of heterosexual love confession. This paper mainly discusses the attitude of female graduate students towards love and the reasons for refusing to confess love. This thesis includes three parts:. The first part is an open questionnaire. By issuing an open questionnaire to 90 female graduate students, this paper collects the reasons why women refuse male love advertisement, arranges 39 items, and compiles the female graduate students' reasons questionnaire for refusing opposite sex love advertisement. The second part is a questionnaire survey. 447 female graduate students were investigated with the questionnaire of reasons for refusing heterosexual Love Advertising. The results show that the main reason for female graduate students to refuse heterosexual love confession is to attach importance to their own feelings. Dissatisfied with the person's character, values and personal abilities. The third part is the interview research. Two female graduate students who have the experience of rejecting the opposite sex love confession are selected and interviewed in depth for an hour or so respectively. The recording is converted into verbatim script and analyzed by taking root theory. The results show that, When female graduate students refuse to tell about heterosexual love, they mainly consider the future planning of female students and the analogies gap between female postgraduates' former boyfriends and so on. By synthesizing the above studies, it is concluded that:. In addition, the reasons for female graduate students' rejection of heterosexual love are mainly due to their dissatisfaction with men's internal qualities, including personality and values. Interest and personal ability. At the same time, female graduate students also attach importance to personal future planning when refusing to declare love. (2) female graduate students who have love experience are influenced by their love experiences and compare them with former boyfriends. The reason why female graduate students refuse to admit love reflects the matching theory in the theory of mate selection.
【学位授予单位】：河北师范大学
【学位级别】：硕士
【学位授予年份】：2013
【分类号】：G444;G645.5

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